Some people come into your life, and they are absolute perfection, and then some time passes and they turn out to be... not quite what you originally saw, BUT let's just know that they are who they are, and they are finding their own way. Let's not crucify them for mistakes, even if the mistakes they make cut you to the bone. Just know when it's time to let them go their own away. Forgive, forget, do what you need.

That being said, you cannot allow these people and their actions to warp your own perception of yourself... Truly take into consideration the mistakes you've made and the times you "fucked up," but never lose yourself.

Learn to remember without regret and move on to the next great thing.